
First and foremost, the church needs to be persuasive to the up and coming generation. Too many times has the church come across as irrelevant or even oppressive. The church must present a compelling response to the “liberating” claim of the sexual revolution, exposing this claim for the lie that it is and fleshing out a biblical alternative that is more fulfilling and life-giving individually and socially. To be effective, this articulation must not be confined to like-minded circles, but fully conversant with the predominant secular narrative, going toe-to-toe with its best spokespeople.
Ryan T. Anderson puts it eloquently when he says; “It (the church) needs to make the truth about human sexuality and its fulfillment in marriage not only attractive and appealing, but noble and exhilarating. This is a truth worth staking one’s life on.”
The public can only be won over, however, if the church reaches out to those with same-sex attraction and gender identity confusion in a humane and compassionate way. One important way to roll back the false, hurtful narrative promoted by culture is to enter into deep friendships and promote ministries that help these individuals to form a biblical view of themselves and God’s unique calling in their life. The precedent set by the pro-life movement to tirelessly provide compassionate resources through crisis pregnancy centers are instructive.

Finally, Christians must live biblical values regarding human sexuality to its fullest, including chastity and fidelity. Those who are single can deepen in their powerful contribution to godly friendships and community. Those who are married are challenged to embrace the biblical posture of mutual submission and every biblical attitude of the heart that enables marriages to endure and families thrive. The church needs to foster a living example of the benefits of robust marriages and flourishing families, or the argument will be lost on the next generation.
See Canon and Culture for more on rebuilding the marriage culture.